Conscious Dating Starts With Inner Work

Ladies, number one above all is healing and learning to truly love yourself (which is why I always tell you it starts with inner work as it is 80% of the game with men).

Here are some very basic standards for conscious dating with full confidence and heartbreak-proofing your dating process as much as possible, while setting yourself up for success and dream love!  I teach you an entire series on how to date to find the right partner at the Feminine Energy Course, but here are a few tips:

❤️ Do not get infatuated with a man you've just met, after 1-2-3-4 dates. Curb infatuation, look for true alignment.

❤️ Do not give a guy exclusivity prior to 5 weeks to 3 months until he has proven himself by consistently and lovingly investing in you and actually asked for it.

❤️ Learn to be a process dater, follow your vision and not an instant gratification (led by desperation) dater.

❤️ Do not sleep with a guy prior to 5- 8 weeks or under 5 dates, to filter out men who are minimally invested or not into the real you. Only sleeping with a man who treats you like a Queen, is consistently investing in your life and moving the relationship forward. Quality men will wait if they feel you are honest

❤️ Lean back, lean back, lean back.

❤️ Mirror a man's investment, do not overgive, do more than he is doing or ever chase or pursue (if this is a habit, you may need inner healing work asap)

❤️ Do not close all options with other men prior to being exclusive and really knowing a man.

❤️ Learn to show up radiant, real (being your beautiful, real self), vulnerable and feminine - do the work here and men will be flocking to you.

You can have soulmate feeling chemistry with a man, and it is NOT enough - because he isn't able to give you what you want.  

Look for alignment, not just feelings and chemistry - otherwise soul-shattering heartbreak.

Want to read amazing real-life love stories from women who went from being single for years to dreaming of love because they started doing the inner work?

Check out my IG highlight “Clients”

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